If you speak Farsi in Oshawa, you may know the feeling of being one of very few. The six non-official mother tongues Durham Region highlighted from the 2021 Census were Tamil, Urdu, Tagalog, Spanish, Mandarin and Italian; Persian, which had made that list in 2016, did not. The larger Iranian communities are a long drive west, and that distance changes everyday life: fewer people who hear your accent as ordinary, fewer places to mark Nowruz or Yalda without explaining them, fewer people to talk to in the language your feelings first learned.
Distance from Iran shows up in the clock as well. Tehran is many hours ahead, so calls home happen late at night or before work, and hard news often arrives while Oshawa is asleep. Carrying that alone, without neighbours who follow the same headlines, is a particular kind of tiredness.
For some people that distance is welcome, a chance to live a little more privately. Others end up here for a job, a program or housing and feel the quiet more than they expected. Both experiences make sense, and both can be brought to therapy.
Oshawa is also a place people come to study. Ontario Tech University and Durham College share a campus in north Oshawa, and for an international student from Iran the first winters here can be lonely in ways that are hard to put into English. Your school's counselling service is worth knowing about. A Farsi-speaking therapist can sit alongside it when what you are carrying has as much to do with family, home and the news from Iran as with coursework.
Ghazal Sheikhtaheri, Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), CRPO #21300, was born and raised in Iran and works in Farsi and English. People sometimes search for an "Iranian psychologist"; Ghazal is a psychotherapist rather than a psychologist, and what she offers is culturally matched psychotherapy drawing on Schema Therapy and attachment- and emotion-focused approaches. Tina Abadi, RP, also works in Farsi and English, with a more structured, CBT-based style. Roya Dadollahi Sarab, RP, also works in Farsi and English and uses CBT, ACT and DBT skills, with a focus on newcomers and settling in.
Because sessions are online, living far from the GTA's larger Persian neighbourhoods doesn't narrow your options, and nobody from your community sees you walk into an office. You can join from your own home, in Farsi, English or whatever mix of the two feels natural that day. If your week is split between home in Oshawa and a job or classes somewhere else in Ontario, the sessions come with you.