In a town of about 138,500 people, the 2021 Census counted 2,155 Whitby residents in the West Asian group, which includes people of Iranian background: roughly 1.6% of the town, though up from 1,260 in 2016. If you speak Farsi here, you may be the only Persian family on your street or at your children's school. Some days that is simply ordinary suburban life; on others it is lonely, especially around Nowruz, a death in the family, or a week of hard news from Iran.
For parents, the distance often shows up at home. Children grow up speaking English at school and with friends, and Farsi can slowly shrink to the language of grandparents' phone calls. Some parents keep it alive through weekend classes or long calls with family in Iran; others feel guilty that they haven't managed to. Many parents feel torn between wanting their children to belong here and grieving what might be lost. Adults who came to Canada as children carry the reverse: fluent in both worlds and fully at home in neither. Neither experience is a problem to be fixed, but both deserve somewhere to be said out loud, in the language that fits.
The practical side of settling in has its own help. Community Development Council Durham runs newcomer settlement programs across the region, and there are Farsi-language community programs in the GTA. Therapy is for what those services are not designed to hold: immigration grief, family expectations, anxiety and low mood, and patterns that formed long ago in another country and another language.
Ghazal Sheikhtaheri, Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), CRPO #21300, is Iranian-born and works in Farsi and English. Some people search for an "Iranian psychologist"; the accurate word for her role is psychotherapist, and her work draws on Schema Therapy and attachment- and emotion-focused approaches. Tina Abadi, RP, works in both languages too, with a structured approach grounded in CBT. Roya Dadollahi Sarab, RP, also works in Farsi and English and uses CBT, ACT and DBT skills, with a focus on newcomers and settling in.
Because everything happens online, the distance to the GTA's larger Persian communities stops mattering, and a session can be held entirely in Farsi, entirely in English, or in whatever mix the moment calls for.