Newcomers to Pickering have a settlement agency close to home: Welcome Centre Immigrant Services runs a Pickering site, as well as one in neighbouring Ajax, where people get settlement and employment help. Its services also include culturally appropriate family counselling and mental health supports, offered in many languages, including Farsi and Dari. For many people that is where the practical side of a new life in Durham Region gets sorted out.
What a settlement office is not built to hold is the part of immigration that does not fit on a form: the grief of leaving parents in Iran, the guilt of not being there when someone falls ill, the strain on a marriage when one partner's career restarts and the other's does not, or the feeling that you no longer fully belong in Iran or in Canada. People often carry these things for years before speaking to anyone, partly because it is exhausting to explain them to someone who does not know the culture, and partly because in many families, Iranian or not, problems are meant to stay inside the house.
Pickering's Farsi-speaking community is small and scattered across the city, and the six non-official mother tongues reported most often in Durham Region in 2021 did not include Persian, so finding a Persian-speaking therapist nearby is not a given. Online sessions solve that: Tina Abadi, RP, Roya Dadollahi Sarab, RP, and Ghazal Sheikhtaheri, Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), CRPO #21300, all see clients by video at home, in Farsi, English or both. People sometimes search for an "Iranian psychologist"; Ghazal's accurate title is Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), and her work draws on Schema Therapy and attachment- and emotion-focused approaches.
Therapy and settlement support can run side by side. A settlement worker might help with a job application while sessions look at why every rejection lands so heavily, or why a phone call with your mother leaves you unable to sleep. Some people come after the practical side has calmed down, once there is finally room to feel what the move cost. Either timing is fine. So is coming years later: plenty of people who settled in Pickering long ago find that a death in the family back home, a child leaving for university or news from Iran brings the old grief back with surprising force.
Because sessions are online, they fit around a day that may include a GO train into Toronto or a shift closer to home, with no drive across the city to reach a Farsi-speaking clinician. More general questions are answered on the Ontario Farsi therapy page.