For newcomers, Oshawa can make practical sense. Of the GTA's regions, Durham has had the lowest average resale price, though that average still stood at about $900,000 in mid-2025. Oshawa GO, the eastern end of the Lakeshore East line, has two-way, all-day trains to Union Station, so a job interview or a family visit in Toronto stays within reach. The trade-off can be long days, rotating shifts in healthcare or manufacturing, and a first job here that looks nothing like the career you left.
Those pressures sit on top of the quieter parts of migration: grief for the people and places you had to leave, the loss of a professional identity, children who now translate for their parents, and the loneliness of being new where few people share your history. Children often adapt fastest, which can leave parents feeling like newcomers in their own home. When the practical side of settling takes everything, the inner side gets postponed, sometimes for years, and it tends to surface later as exhaustion, irritability or a low mood that won't lift.
Practical help matters, and Durham has settlement services for language, employment and getting established; some are listed below. Psychotherapy is where you look at what the move has stirred up inside you: immigration grief, identity held between two cultures, family expectations across time zones, and the older patterns a big transition can wake. Some people also carry what happened before they left, such as war, persecution or a dangerous journey, and those memories can surface once life finally slows down enough for them to be felt.
Ghazal Sheikhtaheri, Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), CRPO #21300, made this move herself, from Iran to Canada, and brings that experience to her work alongside schema therapy, CBT and emotion-focused approaches. Sessions are online, in English or Farsi, so they never add a trip across the city to a week that is already full, and if English still feels like a second skin, a session can move into Farsi whenever that is easier.