In 2015 and 2016 Guelph drew national attention when local businessman Jim Estill led the private sponsorship of dozens of Syrian refugee families, with support from many local volunteers. It is a real part of the city’s story, and a reminder that a welcome can be generous and still leave a great deal unsaid.
Resettlement answers the urgent questions first: where to live, how to enrol the children, how to find work. The grief tends to arrive later, sometimes years later, once life is stable enough to feel it. Families who fled war may carry losses and fears that do not fit the story of gratitude others expect to hear, and they deserve pacing that lets them decide what to talk about. People who came by choice carry their own version: a parent aging far away, a profession left behind, a self that no longer quite fits either place.
Families also adjust at different speeds. Children may settle into school and friendships quickly while a parent is still searching for work that uses their training, and a spouse who came as a dependant may have no one to talk to during the day. Those gaps can strain a household that is, at the same time, genuinely glad to be here.
Kindness from neighbours helps, and it can also make the struggle harder to admit. When people have gone out of their way for you, saying that you are lonely or angry or homesick can feel like ingratitude. Therapy is a place where those feelings can be said without hurting anyone, and where they can be understood as part of arriving rather than a failure to appreciate it.
Immigrant Services Guelph-Wellington and other agencies handle much of the practical side of settling. Therapy holds the other side. Ghazal Sheikhtaheri, a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying) who immigrated from Iran, works with Schema Therapy and attachment- and emotion-focused methods to look at the patterns a move brings to the surface: the drive to prove yourself, the reluctance to ask for anything, the sense of belonging nowhere. She knows from her own life that some of the heaviest parts of immigration are invisible to everyone else.
Sessions are online, which matters when you are still learning the bus routes or sharing a single car. They are available in English or Farsi to clients in Guelph and anywhere in Ontario.
Local support in Guelph
None of these organizations is connected to NoorMinds; they are independent services that can be useful alongside sessions or between them.