Markham wears its success openly, a prosperous, tech-forward city in York Region often called Canada's high-tech capital, with finance and professional services gathered alongside its technology firms. It is highly diverse, home to very large East Asian communities and a notable, growing Middle Eastern and Persian presence across the broader region, and its suburbs are affluent and family-oriented. Beneath that comfort runs a high-achieving culture, and with it the quiet pressures that high achievement so often brings.
For immigrants who have come far and worked hard to belong in such a place, those pressures can take a particular shape. There is the expectation to succeed visibly, to justify the sacrifice of leaving home, to make the family proud across the distance. And there is the part of you that, behind the accomplishments, still grieves what was left behind and wonders whether anyone here truly knows you. Achievement and loneliness are not opposites. They can live comfortably in the same accomplished life.
In this work we make room for the self beneath the striving. We speak about identity held between two worlds, about expectations that travel from family far away, and about the grief and self-rebuilding that follow starting over. Ghazal Sheikhtaheri is an immigrant herself, a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), CRPO #21300, drawing on Schema Therapy and attachment- and emotion-focused work to reach the patterns beneath performance.
All sessions are online, so the pace of an achievement-oriented place need not keep you from care. Wherever you are in Markham, and anywhere in Ontario, you are welcome to meet in English or in Farsi, in whatever language lets you set the striving down.