Not everyone building a life in Barrie is a permanent resident. At the 2021 Census, about 3,100 people in the city, roughly 2 per cent, were non-permanent residents: people living here on study or work permits, refugee claimants, and family members living with them. For them, settling in comes with a clock attached. A study permit, a work permit or a pending application can make every other decision feel provisional, from signing a lease to letting yourself make friends, and the uncertainty can sit in the body long after the day's classes or shifts are done.
Permanent residents and citizens carry their own version. Maybe you came through Toronto first and moved north for more space, or came straight to Barrie for a job, and found the practical side manageable while the inner side quietly piled up: grief for the people and places you left behind, parents ageing far away, a career that does not yet reflect what you built at home, children growing up more Canadian than you expected. None of this is a failure to adjust. It is what migration asks of people.
Immigration is not only a matter of language, either. Newcomers who share a first language with most of their neighbours, as many arriving from the United Kingdom do, can still be caught off guard by how foreign the details feel: the humour, the school system, the unspoken rules about friendship and family. Because nobody expects them to struggle, that kind of adjustment often goes unacknowledged, even by the person going through it.
Barrie has help for the practical side. YMCA of Simcoe/Muskoka runs settlement and language programs in the city, and the County of Simcoe's newcomer portal lists settlement services across the region, Barrie included. What those services are not designed for is the loneliness of being one of the few people at work who shares your background, or the exhaustion of explaining yourself in a second language all day.
Ghazal Sheikhtaheri, a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), CRPO #21300, came to Canada from Iran herself, and her work with newcomers spans the Middle East, South Asia, East Africa, Latin America and Eastern Europe. Using schema therapy, CBT and emotion-focused techniques, she helps people with questions of identity and belonging, with shifting roles inside the family, and with the pressure to seem grateful while worn out.
Sessions are online, weekly and 60 minutes, in English, Farsi or both, so they fit around classes, shifts and the drive home rather than adding one more trip. They are available to people in Barrie and across Ontario.