Arrival in Scarborough rarely looks like the brochures. It is a first apartment in Malvern or Wexford near family or friends who came before, a settlement appointment squeezed between shifts, an English class after work, and a phone that lights up at odd hours because it is morning back home. The district has settlement and community agencies built for exactly this stage, and it makes sense to use them. What those services are not designed to hold is everything underneath: the grief, the shifting sense of who you are, the quiet question of whether leaving was worth it. For many people it lands in the first winter, in the early dark and the long wait at a bus stop on Sheppard or Lawrence, when the novelty has worn off and home feels very far away.
Students feel their own version of this. The University of Toronto Scarborough and Centennial College's Progress and Morningside campuses bring international students to the district, many of them managing study permits, part-time jobs and family expectations from far away all at once. When people back home have invested in your success, it can feel impossible to admit you are struggling, even to yourself.
Therapy is a place to set some of that down. Together we can look at identity stretched between two worlds, family roles that no longer fit, and the grief of a life left behind, even when leaving was your own choice. Ghazal Sheikhtaheri, a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), CRPO #21300, immigrated from Iran herself and works with Schema Therapy alongside attachment- and emotion-focused methods, so the work reaches the patterns a new life presses on, not only the week in front of you.
Sessions are entirely online, in English or Farsi. There is nothing extra to get to after a shift, a class or a settlement appointment, and you can meet from home wherever you are in Scarborough. The agencies below can help with the practical side of settling in while therapy attends to the rest.
Local support in Scarborough
These are independent organizations, not affiliated with NoorMinds, that newcomers in Scarborough may find useful alongside or between sessions.