The stories differ. Many Russian-speaking families came from the former Soviet Union, a good number of them Jewish, and built community life along Bathurst Street, with institutions such as the Jewish Russian Community Centre. Iranian families are another thread, and others came from dozens of other countries. What they share is the particular work of arriving: learning new systems, rebuilding a career, deciding which traditions to keep and which to loosen.
Established immigrant communities are a real support, and they also carry a particular pressure. When your neighbours arrived decades ago and now look settled and successful, it can feel as if you should be further along too. The grief for the life you left, credentials that did not transfer, the change in your marriage or in your role with your children: all of it can be hard to admit in a place where so many people seem to have managed.
For many Thornhill families the immigrant story is now two or three generations deep. Parents who arrived as adults may still think in Russian or Farsi; their children think in English and move between worlds every day. Those gaps are not failures of love, but they can leave everyone feeling misunderstood, and they often surface in individual therapy long after the practical work of settling is done.
Some newcomers arrive later in life, joining adult children here, and find themselves isolated by language and distance from everything familiar. Their children often carry both the care and the guilt of having asked them to come. Therapy can hold either side of that story.
Practical settlement help is available through York Region's Welcome Centres and the agencies listed below, and therapy sits alongside that help rather than replacing it. Ghazal Sheikhtaheri, Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), CRPO #21300, immigrated from Iran and has worked with immigrants and refugees from many regions, Eastern Europe and the Middle East among them. She uses Schema Therapy, CBT and emotion-focused techniques, online, in English or Farsi. The first step is a free 15-minute consultation.