The practical side of settling in Burlington has local help. HMC Connections, the Halton Multicultural Council, helps newcomers across Halton, Burlington included, with settlement and community services. Services like these help with the paperwork of a new life. They are not designed for the other half of it, the part that surfaces at night when the house is quiet: missing your mother's voice, wondering whether you made the right decision, feeling like a smaller, more careful person in English than you were in your first language.
Burlington is becoming more diverse, but you may still be the only person from your country in your office or in your child's classroom. That kind of visibility is tiring. You explain your name, your accent and your food, and you learn which parts of yourself to keep for home. Children often adapt faster than their parents, and families can end up speaking two languages at the same table, with different ideas about what belonging should look like.
Some newcomers also arrive with professional careers that have to be rebuilt: re-qualifying, taking a job below their training, commuting to wherever the first opportunity was. The loss of status is real, and so is the pressure not to complain about it. Ghazal Sheikhtaheri, Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), came to Canada from Iran after her first graduate degree in Tehran and completed further training here at Yorkville University. She works with immigrants from many countries, not only Iran, using Schema Therapy together with attachment- and emotion-focused work to look at the old patterns a move tends to reawaken.
Sessions are online, which matters when evenings are taken up by a second job, a language class or children's activities. You can meet from home anywhere in Burlington, in English, Farsi or a mix of both, and Roya Dadollahi Sarab, RP, also works with life transitions and grief in both languages.