Kitchener's story begins with immigration. From the 1830s the settlement here was called Berlin, and most of its nineteenth- and early twentieth-century residents were of German origin. In 1916, in the middle of the First World War, residents voted in a referendum to give up the name Berlin, and the city became Kitchener. K-W Oktoberfest, which began in 1969, is one visible legacy of that German heritage. More than a century later, it is still being shaped by people who arrived from somewhere else.
That long history doesn't make arriving any easier for the person doing it. Every newcomer still has to find a family doctor, learn the unwritten rules at work, and explain their name, their accent, their lunch. Kitchener has an established settlement network for the practical side, including the Kitchener-Waterloo Multicultural Centre and Reception House, the first point of service for government-assisted refugees in Waterloo Region. What that network isn't designed to hold is the inner side of migration: the grief that surfaces months after arrival, the parent who feels like a stranger to children growing up Canadian, the professional whose experience didn't seem to cross the border.
Ghazal Sheikhtaheri, a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying) with the CRPO, knows that inner side from her own move from Iran. She works with Schema Therapy and attachment- and emotion-focused methods, tracing the older beliefs about worth and belonging that migration tends to wake up, so you can understand what is happening rather than simply push through it. Roya Dadollahi Sarab, RP, also works with life transitions and grief, in the same two languages.
Sessions are online, so there is no bus ride across town after a shift or an English class, and nobody needs to know where you are going. You can speak in English, in Farsi, or move between them, whichever language holds what you need to say. If your parents live with you, or your children have started translating for you at appointments, those shifts in the family are welcome in the room too.