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Farsi and English, in the same room
The session moves between them as your family does, so no one is arguing in a second language.
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Persian & Farsi Family Therapy in Whitby
A quiet rhythm of family, home and the long drive west, a little far from where your language lives. Sessions in Farsi and English, online. For families with teens, adolescents and young adults. Sessions are virtual across Ontario, in English and Farsi.
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Family sessions are with Tina. If one of you would also like a space of your own, Ghazal works with adults individually; she is currently booking by waitlist (3–4 weeks).
What Brings Families In
Two sets of assumptions, one household
Very little of this work is about a single argument. It is usually about what each generation takes for granted: what respect looks like, what a parent is owed, how much of a life is a private matter, and how much of a decision belongs to the person making it. Those assumptions used to be shared by everyone in the room. Often they are not any more, and everyone involved can still be entirely reasonable.
(This page is general information, not clinical advice. A free consultation is the usual place to start.)
- Parents and adult children who love each other and cannot talk without it turning.
- A generation gap that immigration widened: one household, two sets of assumptions.
- Children who answer in English while their parents are speaking Farsi.
- Authority that worked at home and does not work here, and the grief in that.
- A teenager or young adult and a parent who love each other and cannot get through one hard subject.
- In-laws, obligation, and the question of who a decision actually belongs to.
The Approach
Structured, and in both languages
Language is part of the mechanism here, not a detail. It is ordinary for parents to think and feel in Farsi while children answer in English, and for the weight of a sentence to survive in one language and not the other. A session held only in English asks the parents to argue in their second language; only in Farsi, and it asks the same of the children. These move between both.
The work itself is practical. Emotionally focused and cognitive behavioural approaches for the conversations that keep going wrong. It is for families with teens, adolescents and young adults. The aim is a different conversation at home this week, not a new theory about your household.
Nobody is put on trial in the room.
Why NoorMinds
Four reasons families choose this practice
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A Registered Psychotherapist
Tina Abadi, RP, CRPO #13777, with a Master of Arts in Counselling Psychology.
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For teens and young adults
Family work with teenagers, adolescents and young adults. Sessions are virtual across Ontario, in English and Farsi.
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Private, and online
No waiting room, and nowhere to be recognised arriving. Sessions from wherever you are in Ontario.
Fees
Straightforward and stated upfront
Free15-min consultation
$250Family · 60 min
$375Family · 90 min
For families with teens, adolescents and young adults. Sessions are virtual across Ontario, in English and Farsi. Insurance receipts provided after every session. Tina is a fully Registered Psychotherapist, so psychotherapy with an RP is commonly covered; please confirm the details with your insurer.
Questions
Common questions
Everything cultural in our house feels like an obligation we impose. How do we change that?
By separating the contact you want from the practices you have been using to get it, which is often the whole difficulty in one sentence. Once children are not being asked to prove belonging, a surprising amount of the resistance goes. Tina Abadi, RP (CRPO #13777), works with families in Farsi and English, online.
Who is family therapy for?
For families with teens, adolescents and young adults. Sessions are virtual across Ontario, in English and Farsi, with Tina Abadi, RP.
Who comes to a family session?
Whoever the work needs, and not always everyone at once. Sometimes it is two parents; sometimes a parent and an adult child; sometimes one person for several sessions before anyone else joins. Nobody is required to attend in order for the work to be useful, and nobody is put on trial in the room.
Can the session be in Farsi?
Yes, and it can move between Farsi and English as the family does. That matters more in family work than anywhere else, because it is common for parents to think in Farsi and children to answer in English, and a session that forces one language onto everyone quietly takes a side.
What kind of therapy is this?
Cognitive behavioural and emotionally focused work for families with teens, adolescents and young adults. It is structured and practical: the aim is a different conversation at home this week, not only a better understanding of an old one.
How long does this usually take?
Shorter than most people expect for a specific, nameable difficulty, and longer where a pattern has been running for years. Six to twelve sessions is a common shape for work of this kind, and it is reviewed with you rather than decided in advance.
What does it cost, and is it covered?
Family sessions are $250 for 60 minutes and $375 for 90 minutes, for families with teens, adolescents and young adults. Sessions are virtual across Ontario, in English and Farsi. A free 15-minute consultation is the place to start. Receipts are provided after every session. Tina Abadi is a fully Registered Psychotherapist, so psychotherapy with an RP is commonly covered for her sessions; it is still worth confirming the details with your insurer.
Next Step
One conversation, differently
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NoorMinds offers online family therapy in Farsi and English to families in Whitby and across Durham Region, from Oshawa and Ajax through Pickering and the rest of Ontario.
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Whitby
Family Therapy for Whitby families
Life in Whitby can settle into a quiet rhythm of family, home and the long drive west into the GTA, and for many newcomers that rhythm also feels a little far from where their language and culture live. Persian-speaking families here are usually few on the street and a long way from the places where being Persian is unremarkable.
The tiredness of that is specific. It is not only the commute; it is that every piece of cultural continuity has to be chosen and arranged rather than simply happening, and it is chosen by parents who are already running on very little. Children, meanwhile, experience the arranged version as an obligation rather than an inheritance, which is precisely the opposite of what was intended.
The work looks at what is actually being asked for underneath the arrangements, which on both sides is usually contact rather than compliance. Practical and structured, in Farsi, English, or both, for families with teens, adolescents and young adults, online across Ontario.